Double~U~Double~U~Why~Deeee~(WWYD)

[ILyekkaKai]

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O.K. , This thread is about a hypothetical question and What Would You Do(WWYD) if the situation was yours.

First one...
A married person finds out their spouse is talking to and sending money to porn people on web cam.
Do you get upset because this is a form of cheating? Do you not worry about it because it's harmless fun?
Or What Would You Do? :eh:

[BlackDalek]

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Well, first up... I'd take all the money out of the bank and blow the lot on booze and pot :mrgreen: :thumbup: :thumbup: :lol:
Then I'd go on a road trip and make them worry themselves half to death :thumbup:

[ILyekkaKai]

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Well, first up... I'd take all the money out of the bank and blow the lot on booze and pot :mrgreen: :thumbup: :thumbup: :lol:
Then I'd go on a road trip and make them worry themselves half to death :thumbup:

The booze and pot may be some sort of coping mechanism ... and the road trip might help to take the thoughts away of the terrible things the spouse got caught doing, the offending spouse SHOULD worry about their upset spouse , it's only a fraction of the hurt they are probably feeling...... just say'in....


Not too bad an idea I say ... especially if the spouse had already drained the bank account to spend on the web cam sex people and lied to your face about it all.

;) :thumbup: :clap: :problem: :wtf: :roll:

[yoyo]

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I'd just murder my husband.

E vid porn is probably a risky behavior if you ask me. It's not like reg porn where you just rent a video and that's it, you are sending money to a person you don't know. They could steal your money next you don't know! And what's next your spouse meeting up with women he met on the internet? Ok maybe I'm sounding paranoid but ...

Any he may think nothing of this other than it's porn but I'd ream him out before sending him to the dog house.

[n5-kopele]

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I should have opened this thread earlier, but I didn't know what WWYD meant :)

I dunno, I would probably not pay any attention, because I still watch porn and masturbate when I'm in a relationship, and this is not very different. Well, I value my money and watch only free porn and would never send money to someone in this business, but maybe my partner has a different idea about it? Anyway, it's their money and they can spend it however they like. As long as my finances don't suffer because of it and we still have a great relationship, we are close, we talk and share stuff and the sex is still great, then I don't care :)

Btw, for a moment there I thought ILK wanted to say that she caught BD doing that..

[yoyo]

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Um if you are married then that makes it also your money. And yes where the money goes is your business. Is this cam porn live? And is he chatting with this person as in does he have contact with them? See that makes a huge difference that's more like cheating if you ask me. Now it's not just watching some anonymous person that you will never meet to chatting with the person and hey you never know they could meet if they wanted to.

Yeah you see how this is more risky?

This is training wheels for the next big step which is right out and out cheating.

Grab your torch and pitch fork!

[n5-kopele]

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So if I buy myself some sweets, my hun should be interested in that because it's not only my money? And also not only my body - if I buy too many sweets and get fat my hun might not like me anymore, so my hun should have a say on whether I buy sweets or not?

If my partner lies down next to me every night and we have no problems of sexual or relationship kind, I don't care where and how they masturbate and who they flirt with. It's still not cheating imo.

[Zoola]

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I'd kill my fiancee !

[n5-kopele]

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I'd kill my fiancee !

:(

[Dark Dragon Dave]

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I'd kill my fiancee !

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